So the story goes, I was 17 and doing really well in school. I got good grades and I worked my butt off in soccer everyday during practice. I wasn't planning on dating anyone because I was headed to Montana State University in the fall and it would be pointless to start a relationship that would turn into a long distance thing. Well something made me rethink that whole idea...definitely not my head. My PLAN was to go out west and study horses. I wanted to learn everything I could so that I could start a ranch. That is still a dream of mine to this day. Any who, this obviously didn't happen. I fell in love with my boyfriend and chose to go to a different school that was closer to home. After a semester of being away at school (I was closer but still 4 hours away from him), I decided to come home because I couldn't handle being away from him and it was putting strain on our relationship. I knew this was the man I had wanted to marry.
I came home from school in winter 2011 and started classes at the community college to work towards becoming a dental assistant. I ended up getting engaged and throwing school out the window to plan a wedding for that June.
June 4th, 2011, I wed the most amazing man I have ever met in my life. He makes me the person I have always wanted to be.
We went on our honeymoon and when we came home we moved in with his parents. =/ soooooo exciting, right?? But it was all good because we had purchased a remodel house on land contract. So when he wasn't working, we would spend our weekends ripping out walls and building new ones. In May 2012 we decided that the remodel house wasn't a good idea for us at the time. First year of marriage and taking on a remodel house?? That is a recipe for divorce and we were almost there! Don't do it!!
We ended up moving back in with his parents. We had moved into our house while working on it. Yet another bad idea!! Don't live in a construction zone!! we have been living in my in-laws place since June, it is now going into June 2013. Ugh!! This brings us to now. I currently just finished my medical terminology class at the community college so that I could finally get my dental assistant program started....2 years later. This was my plan for the next 5 years.
Finished Med Term class with at least a B - check
Apply to WCC dental program - check
save $$ -
start dental program august 2013 -
continue $$ -
work through dental program -
complete program august 2014 -
apply for dental assistant jobs -
receive jobs within 3 months -
work for 9 months saving all money except tithe, gas, and bills,
buy a brand new ford explorer -
continue saving $$ -
work another year or so saving all money same as before to use for down payment on house -
This was my plan. I was going to work for probably five years as a DA then settle down and have babies. Well that plan got rained on, no, hailed on because I was not accepted into the dental program. I did not meet the minimum GPA requirement. No, I am not stupid. I just got distracted by a boy. This is why I say, " when your life is going good, BEWARE because it is about to get f'd up!!"
Wat will I do next?? Where do I go from here?
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